Creating a Life of Happiness
The problem is, it's quite hard to feel like this in the society and age we live in. For example, a lot of uber-successful people I know act the same way: working themselves into the ground for a decade or two, trading their happiness and peace of mind for cash and promotions. They think it's fine to trade a life of happiness for short-term profits. I disagree.
After a year or two of following this same path, I decided to bail out and do my own thing. Sod killing yourself to make a living – in my humble opinion, there is absolutely no point going for any goals or dreams unless you are going to enjoy the journey. And I mean really enjoy the journey.
These articles are written to help you become happier and create a life of happiness. Some of them are a little “out there” by conventional standards, but give them a go. The aim isn't to overwhelm you with “positive thinking”. The aim is to open your mind to totally new ways of seeing the world. I've been reading a lot of Taoism and Buddhism of late, and to be frank, these oriental chaps have got the life of happiness thing sorted out. I want to infuse these ancient teachings with a hint of cockney charm, and make them accessible to people like yourself.
I truly believe we live in a world which has put the lunatics in charge of the asylum. Rather than being encouraged to follow our passions and be happy, we are told “normal” is going to work for 40 years in a job you hate, being miserable the whole bloody time. We're told to worry about the economy and swine flu and terrorism. We're told how to think and how to act.
Sod this. You control how you see the world, and with practice you can choose to be happier. It doesn't need to be crazy over the top happiness. Just try to start to realise that all your problems only really exist in your head.....and then start to enjoy a life of happiness.
Life is a lot more fun when you appreciate what you have and begin to see life through the eyes of a kid again. See life as a game, and you'll slowly realise that you get to play by your own rules.
PS - In addition to these posts, read
The Power of Now
by Eckhart Tolle. It will awaken you to the madness all around you, and make you happier too. Now, put a big fat smile on your face, and learn how to live happier!
This includes making a plan, doing what you love, keeping your problems in perspective, celebrating your successes, utilising the power of your imagination, keeping fit, becoming a bit spiritual, not pushing yourself too hard and remembering to appreciate what you have.
Whilst this admittedly takes work, it's really not that tricky to get on track – for a start, feeling happy is contagious and you'll want more of it. Plus, you'll have fun whilst you transition to a life of your own design. Have a look today and start taking responsibility for your life of happiness.
Luckily, a series of strange coincidences brought me to the book 'The Power of Now', and my life (and my view of life) changed instantly. Becoming spiritual doesn't mean becoming an apathetic hippy, it means realising the craziness of the human ego, and becoming aware of a deep and vibrant sense of connectedness hidden within each of us.
When you begin to get in touch with this “being”, and start to try to live in the present (and not constantly worry about past and future), you cannot help but start to live a life of happiness – at a very deep level too. Let these articles show you the way!
I've been playing with the idea (borrowed from the
Law of Attraction
) that the “vibes” we send out tend to be reflected back to us in our experiences of life. This may seem pretty crazy, but the more I play with the idea the more it seems to be the case.
Use this article to learn how to send out “good vibrations”, feel happier and attract happy experiences and people back to you. It's a bit mad, but give it a go. You'll be surprised by the results, as it's a quick-fire way to a life of happiness - once you get the hang of it.
The problem is that the news companies have their own agendas, and there is a reason why they fill the papers and TV with fear-inducing, negative imagery.
This article will introduce you to the numerous conflicts of interests media companies have, and advise you to avoid all news for a week – so you can experience the difference in happiness and positivity yourself. It's little steps like this which will enlighten you to just how brainwashed to be miserable humans are. Try a media blackout for yourself and you'll know what I mean.
Basically, you can create an “anchor” for happiness which allows you to experience all the physiological and psychological benefits and feelings of happiness – on demand. All you do is think (in vivid detail) of times in the past when you have been really happy, and create a “trigger” (such as rubbing two fingers together) which will in future make you feel all these powerful feelings.
Sounds too good to be true? Well, stop being a cynic and give it a go!! If this could allow you to feel happy whenever you want, and add to your pursuit of a life of happiness, surely it's worth ten minutes of your time? Yep, I thought as much :-)
I'm not qualified enough to teach you, but I can:
This article shows you the steps I take to make sure that negative sods can't piss on my parade (for want of a better phrase). You don't have to disown any miserable mates you have, but you can learn how to bring their constant bitching to their attention, without taking a punch in return. Find out how here, and start tapping into your life of happiness today.
Well... That's it for now! I hope these articles help you to become happier in your day-to-day living. My advice would be to focus on the present moment as much as you can, as you'll have a lot more fun that way. Also, try a bit of NLP, and meditate / visualise at night – and, for the love of God – avoid the news for a bit. You'll feel instantly happier and more optimistic, I promise...
Here's to you and your pursuit of a life of happiness!
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